This is the fourth posting is the series of sex tips from my sexually uninhibited friend, BOB. Please feel free to email me or to post questions in the comments section.
No matter how basic, outrageous, or graphic your question may be, BOB will answer it. Over the last few months, as I took time off from blogging to work on my book, several questions heated up my inbox, so I'm going to turn the blog over to BOB to address a couple of these sexual needs.
Question #1 (from John): Being a bottom, what can I do to enhance my solo jerk off sessions.
BOB's Response: To plug, or not to plug. That is the question.
I recently celebrated another birthday, and with that came a barrage of sexual-flavored gifts. The one that really tempted my fancy was something I'd never experienced before . . . a butt plug.
For those of you who do not know what this looks like, it's almost like a large arrowhead with a handle. Many of you would think that with my vast sexual conquests, that I've had some type of history with such a toy, but in reality, my double-headed dildo has kept me company for some time now.
As I quickly drove home from the birthday dinner, my mind raced to uncover what the benefit of such a toy was. After ripping open my package and grabbing my favorite lube, I decided to jump in butt first. Ha Ha!
Being a fan of the dildo, I at first thought to use the plug in the same fashion by f*cking myself with it, but quickly learned that this was not something you'd want being pulled in and out of a tight ass.
I eventually figured out that the most pleasure from the plug came from leaving it in while jerking off.
I can't describe to you exactly how much it turned me on, but let's just say that on my first session with the plug, my man juice hit the headboard of my bed.
I urge you all to go out there an plug away!
Question #2 (from Cesar): I'm heading to Dallas on a business trip, and have always had a fantasy of being with multiple men at one time. Have you had an experience like that, and where would I find guys like this in Dallas?
BOB's Response: Although I do admit to being with multiple partners at one time, I can't say that I've been with more than 2 at any one time. In Dallas, at least, you don't have to look far to find couples to get with - just look at Urban Insanity's post about open relationships.
Besides going out to the bars to find a couple, you can get online on Manhunt.net, Craig's List, and possibly Gay.com.
I recommend Manhunt for the quickest results. More to follow . . . I'm heading off to plug it.





I want to meet BOB. We could have some fun ;p
Posted by: Tim | December 04, 2008 at 10:38 AM